Your message isn’t what you “think” people want to hear.
That fabricated message will do one of two things:
-Fall on deaf ears because there is a large group of people who see through bull shit.
I’ve always been quick to love and when I love, I give my everything. I remember being around 19 years old, feeling heartbroken and disappointed yet again by some guy who wasn’t man enough to be what I needed in a partner (or whatever that looked like to my 19 year old self).
Each time this happened, it pushed me to build what I wanted and be dependent on no one for anything. I got stronger every single time. My skin got thicker and it was at that age that I first fell in love with this quote:
I am the hero of this story, I don’t need to be saved.
Continue reading “Hero of the Story”
In the Get Shit Done Group we had a conversation about Home and Relationships.
We talked about what kind of person we wanted to be for the people we love. What kind of person we were bringing to the table in our business relationships.
Have you ever thought about that? Continue reading “Home and Relationships”
Lately I just feel so CONNECTED.
Connected on such a deeper level. Connected to myself, to the universe, to my purpose, to my clients, and to people I didn’t really think I would be connected to at all. It’s almost a little strange.
But then again, it’s really not. Trusting in that feeling, in that connection is the most comforting thing I’ve felt in a long time.
I can’t explain to you why I trust it, but I do.
I think it comes down to 2 main things…. Continue reading “Being Connected”
Running businesses you will always run into people that just don’t work. And what I mean by that is, they don’t do their job. They are full of excuses, they don’t meet deadlines, and something tragic or life altering is always happening that stops them from accomplishing the thing they’ve told you they understand and are ready to take on.
And then…they don’t. Again. Continue reading “Leaders and Teams”
2016 was about Conquering and Discovery.
2017 is about Shining and Consistency.
To me, shining means staying centered in me, in my purpose and my message. Shining means following my instincts, sharing my story, sharing my wins, sharing my struggles, sharing everything. Staying true to who I am and standing strong in that spot is what shining means to me. Being a guiding light for others. Shining through their fog and helping them make their way through the storm. That is the key to fulfill my purpose here on this earth.
Consistency is a struggle for every one. Continue reading “Word of the Year”
All I’ve seen over the past week is people talking about how terrible 2016 was to them… here on my thoughts on that;
I’m sure some bad shit happened to you in 2016, but what about the good shit? Are you so far removed from the present that you can’t see the good around you too?
Look around, you’re alive. Life is good. You just have to choose to see it.
And before you start bitching about what you didn’t get done, goals you didn’t accomplish, or the weight you wanted to loose but didn’t… think about why not? Why didn’t you get those things? Why are you still in the same spot at you were December 30, 2015?
Did you take action? Or just talk shit?
Did you DO SOMETHING to try and get a different outcome?
Change doesn’t happen just because you talk about it or because you want it really really badly. Continue reading “2017”
A good coach picks you…not the other way around.
A good coach doesn’t just jump into a deal with you just because youre ready to pay them. They don’t take your money before seeing if you’re a good fit.
A good coach is picky about who they choose to work with.
Yes, you may be hiring them and you’re the one giving them your money but to a good coach, its about more than that.
It’s just as much their decision to work with you as it is yours to work with them. Continue reading “As you head into the New Year…”
Coffee shop hustle and bustle. I wonder if what it is about this place. Well, not this place in particular but the coffee shop atmosphere in general. No matter what town I’m in, I can walk into a coffee shop and the vibe is the same.
There’s a creative energy in the air. Continue reading “Coffee Shop Hustle and Bustle”
Your house is a mess but you don’t think that’s affecting your productivity? Well guess again. Continue reading “Is something affecting your productivity?”