My Most Important Tool

My Most Important Tool

As you know, I’m all about getting shit done and maximizing your performance. Yes, we can talk about strategies and plans and procedures to get you there. BUT here’s the thing, one of the MOST IMPORTANT things you can do to be a high performer and an overall HAPPIER person, is take control of how you spend your mornings.

Yep, you guessed it… you need to nail down a Morning Routine! Continue reading “My Most Important Tool”

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Let Yourself Have It

Let Yourself Have It

I’ve written before about daydreaming… about allowing yourself time every day to picture your life with the things you see in your dreams. Picturing life the way you “see it” when you’re talking about the vision you have for your life. Maybe when you think about it or talk about it, you’re talking like it’s never actually going to happen…

But what if you allowed yourself to think that it CAN happen? That is IS possible? Continue reading “Let Yourself Have It”

Be Honest And Clear

Be Honest And Clear

Almost 3 years ago I moved out of my boyfriend’s house.

After living together for over a year and halfway into our second year together, he dropped a huge bomb on me. Something that would have ended most relationships.

He told me that even though he has said he wanted to have more children, the more he thought about it, he realized that he did not. It was not an option for him.

You see, he is 19 years older than me. He has two grown children and a granddaughter, so it’s understandable that he wouldn’t want any more.

But I was blown away when he said this to me, for many reasons. Continue reading “Be Honest And Clear”

Hero of the Story

16649151_10154898805820797_7240505634582737800_nI’ve always been quick to love and when I love, I give my everything. I remember being around 19 years old, feeling heartbroken and disappointed yet again by some guy who wasn’t man enough to be what I needed in a partner (or whatever that looked like to my 19 year old self).

Each time this happened, it pushed me to build what I wanted and be dependent on no one for anything. I got stronger every single time. My skin got thicker and it was at that age that I first fell in love with this quote:

I am the hero of this story, I don’t need to be saved.
Continue reading “Hero of the Story”

Business Women

Business Women

Business women are starting to look a lot different than what you’re used to.

We wear yoga pants and comfy shoes to the airport.

We come equipped with nice handbags and you’ll never catch us without a power pack for our devices.

Yes, we’re always on our phones but we’re not just texting our girlfriends or cruising social media.. We’re making deals, connections, and money with every strike of our thumbs.

We travel alone with confidence. Continue reading “Business Women”

Shine The Light

Shine The Light

Sometimes it really hurts when the people around you don’t grow with you. It can hurt your heart to hear that someone is stuck in a place of pain or resentment or unable to open themselves enough to move forward.

People change.

I used to think that line was bullshit. But I’ve changed so I am proof that it’s possible and it happens everyday.

How do you change? Change for the better? Continue reading “Shine The Light”

The King Eats First

The King Eats First

Lately, every morning I have to remind myself that The King Eats First.

I’ve spent the majority of my life pleasing others. I have always been the rebellious one, but on the flip side I am the nurturer, the caregiver, the mama bear to everyone. Continue reading “The King Eats First”